Ashley Mae Ann Diteman was born in Bozeman June 22nd 1984 to Dustin & Beth Diteman, & went to be with her lord on March 19th 2014.Ashley moved to Las Vegas as a young child and spent her youth there, but would spend the summers in her true home, Montana. She was a very energetic and athletic child, playing soccer, dance teams, and most certainly in the water at all times. When she was 15 she was suddenly stricken with a devastating disease that she fought gallantly against for the remainder of her life until her body could not fight anymore. Although there were many struggles she refused to let them get her down. During this she was chosen as the Children’s Miracle Champion Child from Nevada and went on a trip to Washington DC, where she spent time palling around with Miss America, seeing the Sights and visiting the White House, where she got to pet the presidents dogs. She also was blessed with a Make a wish trip & chose to go to Aruba, where she had a wonderful trip with her family .She then went to beauty school where she learned to be a hairdresser which she absolutely loved. She moved back to Montana in 2004 and continued doing hair for as long as she could until the pain in her hands was too much. She then went to college @ MSU & Helena Cot. and worked for several State Agencies when she could. In 2011 she purchased her own home which was a dream come true for her. She completely remodeled it and absolutely loved it. In 2013 her disease took a turn for the worse. She spent the last months of her life doing crafts with her bff Brandi Gemar . Ashley was preceded in death by her Grandmother Winona Canfield, her uncle Douglas Diteman and is survived by her parents, Dustin & Beth of helena , her brother Porter(kaila) of New York City, G.randparents Lyman & Billie Smith of Manhattan, Wallace Diteman of Bozeman , Bud Carpenter of Lewistown & numerous uncles, aunts & cousins. In leiu of flowers the family asks that you make a donation to Make a Wish or The Children’s Miracle Network or a charity of your choice. Big Sky Cremations & Twitchell Funeral Service assisted the family with arrangements. To offer condolences please visit www.helenafunerals.com.
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Chuck & LouAnn Ball says
Beth & Dusty,
We are so sorry to hear about Ashley. We have many fond memories of the times we got to spend with Ashley especially at the lake and camping. She was always so pleasant and friendly. Always had a smile on her face. No child should have to go through all that Ashley did. She is now at peace and free of pain. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs to you.
Chuck and LouAnn Ball
Garth Sime says
Dear Dusty & Beth, we are so sorry to hear of your great loss! We had no idea she had had health issues for so long. We send you both our most sincere condolences, Garth & Carolyn Sime
David Schaefer says
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Ashley was such a wonderful and kindhearted person, and I know you will miss her so much. She is in God’s hands now.
Phylis Shanahan says
My hearts is full of sorrow today. My thoughts are with you. I wish I would of hugged a little longer and harder the last time I seen her.. She is an angel and is with God now. Phylis
Ed and Susan Cleary says
Dusty and Beth, From our family to yours we want to express our deepest condolences. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ed and Susan Cleary
Krystal Stewart says
Dustin and Beth – My heart was heavy this morning when I saw that Ashley had passed. May you find comfort and peace in the days to come. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kovich's says
Dusty, Beth and family,
Through our daughters illnesses we became friends and I believe it was a purposeful meeting. I regret a cure was not found for Ashley and she had to suffer so. Her accomplishments were with uncommon challenges but she persevered with the desire to go on. I pray all the wonderful memories soon replace your sorrow. Her desire to be with The Lord has been granted and she is now in everlasting love and peace. You’ve been a great support and caring family. Bless Ashley’s journey.
Melody Kurk says
Dusty and Beth, So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Melody Kurk
Charles Ruzicka says
Dear Dusty and Beth,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our condolences.
Love, Chuck & Vicki Ruzicka
Larry Hanson says
Dear Dustin and Beth – I read with much sadness the passing of your lovely daughter Ashley. She was Julie and my favorite hairdresser. Julie always talked highly of Ashley and always enjoyed the time she spent with her. I know they are both sharing stories in Heaven. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Larry Hanson
Karen and Jim Nelson says
Beth and Dustin, Jim and I were surprised to see Ashley’s obituary in the I.R. We wanted to send you two our sincere condolences. It is never easy to loose a child, no matter what the circumstances are. We feel privileged to have met her during the purchase of the Roberts Street house. She was so sweet and sincere. From the little bit we knew, it was clear that she was very blessed to have such loving parents.
Margie Schmitz says
Dustin and Beth:
With thoughts and prayers at this time and in the days to come. May God be with you.
Margie Schmitz and Brutus
patty heckman says
Beth and Dusty, We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your Ashley. May you find comfort in the special memories of her. Sending you love and peace during this most hearting breaking times. Patty and James Heckman
Kovich's says
Dusty, Beth and family,
Through our daughter’s illnesses we became friends and I believe it was a purposeful meeting. I regret a cure was not found for Ashley and she had to suffer so. Her accomplishments were with uncommon challenges but she persevered with the desire to go on. I pray all the wonderful memories soon replace your sorrow. Her desire to be with The Lord has been granted and she is now in everlasting love and peace. You’ve been a great support and caring family. Bless Ashley’s journey.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark & Wendy Tonkovich says
Beth and Dustin,
Our hearts are saddened by the loss or your beautiful, friendly, outgoing, loving daughter. She was amazing to so many folks. She was blessed to have you both as her wonderful, supportive, tender, kind, loving parents. She adored you both. Please know that so many hugs are being sent your way. We hope in the days to come that peace surrounds your hearts and fun memories help in carrying you forward. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Special blessing to both of you………….
Debby Diteman Phillips says
Dusty and Beth,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. Hold tight to memories for comfort
Love
Debby Diteman Phillips
Joanne McKinney says
Beth, I am so sorry to hear of Ashley’s passing. My prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Joanne McKinney
Angela Airhart says
Beth and Dusty we are so sorry to hear of Ashleys passing, and for the sorrow you both are feeling. She was a wonderful woman, and she had the most caring parents. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both and with your family. God be with you all !
Angie and Craig Airhart
Mitch Simkins says
Dusty, Beth & Porter. Ashley is free from disease now and she’s on a new journey. Your love for her lives on indefinitely. Dusty, you were an incredible teammate by offering strength and support to anyone lucky enough to share a sport with you. You and your family deserve the same in return. May your lives be filled with love and peace.
Linda Velasco says
Please except my deepest condolences for the passing of your dear loved one. I know that the depth of love that you and your family shared for each other and for Ashely Diteman will pull you through this most difficult time. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted too with the promise from our Heavenly Father Jehovah God, noted in the book of Psalms 37:9-11, 29 which shows that one day soon, everything that causes pain, sorrow and suffering will be done away with. Sincerely Linda
Shannon Roberts says
Dusty and Beth, I am so sorry for your loss and send heartfelt prayers that in some way you can find peace in knowing your sweet daughter is no longer suffering and in a better place.
Shannon VanAusdol Roberts
Anonymous says
Your Light Shines was purchased for the family of Ashley Diteman.
Paula Cudney says
Dusty, Beth and Porter,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Paula Cudney
Marilyn Grant says
Dear Dusty and Beth,
You have been in my thoughts since I heard of Ashley’s death. Although I never met Ashley, I felt that I knew her from talking with you and the great neighbors we both knew surrounding Roberts Street. Losing a chid is devastating. You and Ashley together helped each other through her journey. Now Ashley no longer fights her pain, and she will be with you in your hearts and memories forever. God Bless.
Marilyn Grant
Joe & Kastine Cameron says
Praying that the understanding sympathy of those who care will be a comfort to you both in the days to come and that the Lord’s promise of everlasting life will ease your pain.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Joe & Kastine Cameron